Sex and Love

In life most people dont know what love is, all they think about is sex,lets be frank, what do think about the one you love, do you think of him/ her as a friend or what? Be sincere with yourself, dont you feel any chemistry when u think of them? Dont worry thats how we were made. Lets learn to think less of sex in our relationship and more of companionship and friendship. Love him/her not for sex or what you will get but for what you will give , i know it sound out of place and difficult but i know you can do it.

There's more in a relationship than sex......sex was made for man and not man for sex. Learn to love unconditionally.
If you love because of sex, that love wont last for long for in a short while after you had the person, the love or would i say lust depreciates exponetially, and your so call love disappears......So before going into any relationship try to distinguish between love and sex, ask yourself, 'do i love this person or i just want to satisfy my sexual desire?'.

Love for love and not for sex......

Women

A woman is a female human. The term woman (irregular plural: women) usually is used for an adult, with the term girl being the usual term for a female child or adolescent. However, the term woman is also sometimes used to identify a female human, regardless of age, as in phrases such as "Women's rights

Women are people, in fact they are the zenith of God's creation, while man was hurriedly created with all the bicepts and muscles, women were made with care and precision. They depict the unimmaginable, complex creativity of God.

Women has played important role in the course of history, they have indeed added immensely to life itself...come to think of it without woman, i wont be here. Right from the beginning they have done something vital like eating the forbidden fruit.........lol, take no offence about that if you are a woman am just trying to write chronologically. Even in ancient Egypt, Greece, Rome etc women played vital and significant roles. Even in our modern day, women have done so much for us to be silent about. Though there are some that have done things bad like Patricia Etteh speaker of Nigeria's house of reps etc.

Women should be seen and appreciated differently, they are not sex symbols, that any time a man or some women sees them, they should not just think about taking them to bed, but they should be seen as people also, people that can be trusted, and can be companions etc.

I love the fact that God created them...have you paused to think about a world without women..what a lonely world it would have been, that was what God saw and said man should not be left alone and he made this wonderful creature called woman.

Think about this if you are a man.........i mean a man......who would provide you with warmth that you so deserve when the night is long and could....who would be your closest companion....Think about this ' beside every succesful man there is a woman' their contribution cant be ignore though not very obvious.

I just have to say this so men can try handling women differently...they are not punch bags...if you want to box...meet Don king to fix a fight with heavyweight boxers...you must be a lazy man fighting or beating a woman. They deserve respect, love ,care, support and honesty.

I know theres more to be said and written about women but Just think about this and try treating any woman with care and love.

Plans and goals

Goals,plans. What can you say about these? whats your idea about these? how do you see these words ? are they just words without meanings? or they are just nouns qualifying things? .take a critical and analytical look at them .
These words change our focus and gives us direction,simplifies our life and give our life, i mean the way we live a direction.
Take a look at this, a man without goal has nothing to live for, a man without plans will do what others want him to do and not what he wants to because he has no plan of his own, without plans and goals you have nothing to live for , nothing to hang on to.
So think about this do you have a goal or plan for the future ? if you dont have one now, its not too late
stick with me i will tell you more or if you have something to ask just ask me NOW.